By Sara Spruch-Feiner
Beauty editor confession: Hair is not my strong suit. While I pride myself on my knowledge of the ins and outs of skincare and have even learned to kontour like a Kardashian, I confuse my hairsprays from my texturizers from my volumizers. That, mixed with a bit of recklessness and I tend to be the kind of girl who tells my hairstylist to “Do what you want! You’re the expert!” It’s served me well, most of the time, and by no means do I think we should live in fear of taking a little bit of a risk when it comes to our look -- it’s hair, and it will grow back.
But, a few months ago, in the midst of a flurry of ~*life changes*~ I got a haircut. This was the one that took things a little further (well, shorter) than I intended. I thought I could rock it, I’d had a lob going on anyway, how different could it be? But I felt ... awkward. When I debuted my new look, my well-intentioned boyfriend ... laughed! Some girls can hardcore rock a bob, but I quickly realized perhaps I wasn’t one of them. Even worse, my hair is slow to grow.
A few months passed and I gathered what little bunches of hair I could into fake ponytails (in spite of the fact that one of the reasons I’d thought going short could be cool would be that it would stop me from always, and habitually having my hair tied up). Still, even the best blow-dries left me looking matronly, and air-dried no frizz serum left my thick hair smooth and sleek and I simply didn’t have enough hair to rock the beachy waves I wanted my summer to be full of. Alas, it’s happened to the best of us. Here’s what to do when you’re growing your hair out. I’ve learned that it doesn’t have to be miserable ... promise!
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As I saw it, there were essentially three possibilities. The first: Learn to work with what you’ve got. The second (which can be done in tandem with the first): Help your hair in its growth process -- especially, if, like mine, it’s a slow one. And the third? To go all out, and get the very hair you thought you didn’t want (that is to say: extensions).