Glam dress? Check. Glam diamond necklace? Check. Glam updo? Nope. And that’s OK. “If she went fancy all around, including an updo, this would look too stiff; she’d look like Zsa Zsa Gabor,” Nerizagal says. “As long as you’re not in a massive ball gown that goes out five feet all around you, luxuriously blown-out hair works.” Here’s how to get it:

Step 1: You need a really good blowout—so allow plenty of time to do it right.

Step 2: Start by applying volumizing mousse like Victoria’s Secret So Sexy Volumizing Mousse, $8.99 to damp hair.

Step 3: Blow dry your hair straight, but not pin straight (the goal is smooth, with some bend, like Heidi’s). Working in 2-inch sections all over will help. (Clip up the top sections in order to reach the underneath sections of your hair.)

Step 4: Mist with shine-boosting hairspray like Pantene Pro-V Ice Shine Hairspray, $4.99.